falling in love, i think, is a matter of chance,luck and timing. it's about being at the right place at the right time and meeting the right person. it's also about having the courage to be stupid and the audacity to experiment. falling in love is about being ready to share your life with someone. it is about taking the chance and not thinking about what the end result will be.
love is not to be pursued. you can't go out in the morning aiming to find love by the end of the day. you can't plan on love. love happens. and when the time's right and it's meant to happen, love will strike you hard.
and love is not something to be forced on. you cannot force someone to love you. emotional blackmails won't work after a while. because love is about understanding, trust and acceptance. it's not about your petty whims and desires. love is not to be demanded. it is to be earned.
love should be about freedom; the freedom of choice: to stay or to leave. it should not be a chain binding you to a person when all you want to do is leave and break free. and most of all, love should be about happiness and joy of the two souls in love.
(personally, never has my timing been right. never has luck shone on me. never have i met the right person at the right time at the right place. i have always been a little too late. but still i keep the faith. optimism is my eternal affliction. have i mentioned this before? ;))
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